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No words can explain how deeply people want to connect with each other. How much pain they will suffer trying to be accepted, to be valued and to be loved. The yearning to be wanted is probably the most trauma that some individuals will ever inflict up on themselves. No matter race, colour, creed, sexual orientation, religion, culture, gender, age or any other factor, what everyone wants is to belong, to connect, to be loved. It is so easy to reach out to someone yet, for some it is the most difficult thing to find someone to connect to. Reach out to those you meet in your daily march. You just never know whose life you might touch, what spark, even unknowingly, you may make.

Wednesday, 21 August 2013

My top six lessons learnt so far . . .


What did I learn when I stepped in faith and retrained as a teacher? So much! Let me see if I can summarise it succinctly....

1. There is always someone who wants to see you fail - petty jealousies are childish. The personal and professional damage and hurt they inflict are not. They are master manipulators and camouflage the truth but don't give in... If you must do something and you can't change it, avoid it or accept it - walk away with dignity knowing you did the best you could do. Do not falter in this regard.

2. Students - students are the future and should be given every opportunity to shine even if they shine in a way outside the box, in an unexpected glow that surprises - be open to that possibility.

3. Students will respect you if you respect them too - get passed the bravado and unwanted behaviour and embrace the unique person beyond it. It's worth it.

4. All students, like people, want to feel valued and have a sense of place and meaning - help them find it. They'll amaze you.

5. Don't let anything or anyone take your attention away from core business - student welfare and education. To serve is a privilege.

6. Finally, believe - believe that you can make a difference - you will! Believe in your students - they will surprise you. Believe in the vision of positivity and success - it might not go according to plan, but miracles might just happen!

Teach - the ultimate service of love, hope and kindness - just as God loves us and sent his son to serve - endeavour to serve. What you do and say will nurture or destroy a young mind. Students deserve the best in comments, body language and encouragement however exasperated you may become. Don't lose hope. Carry on.

Have faith......anything is truly possible.

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